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Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 05:43 pm Amusement again.
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This has officially made my day.
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[info]trinityva
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 02:23 pm (no subject)

The main reason I switched to Menstrual cups was because I had been having symptoms of a yeast infection with my last two periods, but no weird discharge.  Just more irritation... sort of like diaper rash (no idea what else to compare it to, sorry lol!).  So this period I have used my Diva Cup... super happy with it!  No symptoms of pain, irritation, itching.... NOTHING!  YAY!


Then today I pulled the Diva Cup out for the morning cleanng etc, and there was definitely unusual discharge going on.  Yeast-like... so Have been having yeast infections all along, and if I hadn't used my cup I would have never known, so Thank goodness for becoming more familiar with our bodies eh?

I am headed to the Doctor tomorrow assuming my period is all over by then.  I am probably going to be the worst patient because some of the common treatments will be impossible... yogurt grosses me out beyond belief.  I would rather eat dog food.  I am considering going off of HBC once I am married, but I wanted to take a Natural family Planning course first and get used to NFP for birth control before going completely off HBC.  So we will see what the Doc says.

Still, I suppose I could cross-post this with success stories if I wanted to, since one of the good things about Menstrual cups is that it keep women a lil more in touch with their cycles and bodies.  That part was certainly a success with me!  Still, total bummer about these yeast infections... I was hoping I would end up being one of those women that never get them, but no such luck!

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[info]proxigirl, posting in [info]menstrual_cups
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 12:00 pm battling biking fears
Hey guys,
I've been a fair-weather (and deary weather when I need to) commuter for years and have never managed to boot a few specific fears and anxieties. I still tense up whenever I go over bumps or irregularities even though my semi-slick tires can totally handle them. I'm paranoid that a car is going to slide into my bike lane and hit me, or materialize out of nowhere from an empty cross street and t-bone me. I also tap my brakes when going down moderate hills so I don't go more than 25 mph, and hate biking across the bridge when it's windy because I think I'm going to be pushed into traffic.

I bike in Portland, which has fairly bike-aware drivers and lots of bike lanes. I wear a helmet, decent lights and follow laws. Some of this stems from when one of my good friends was in a serious bike accident last fall and now has a rod in her femur. She does "everything right" and still was hit. Learning how to drive a car and discovering that I could trust both my reaction time and other drivers (more or less) helped some, but biking to work is still a source of anxiety.

Do you seasoned, chill commuters have any advice? Should I go cruise down some dirt hills and practice falling? Take the bus partway and slowly increase my traffic time until I'm biking the whole way?

I actually do have an anxiety disorder and take meds and see someone for it, in case you think my litany of somewhat-rational fears is worth a psych visit.

Thanks, all.
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[info]knittinggoddess, posting in [info]bikes
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 11:09 am on the weakness of executive orders
This story out of Virginia shows why the legislative and judicial approaches to LGBT civil rights make much more sense than executive orders.

Of course, that won't stop anyone from using this to attack Obama as some of the PHB commenters do, even though this kind of thing actually validates his preference for legislative change.
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[info]kynn
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 12:01 pm A few months in, still having some issues.
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Hi all. I've browsed the tags and such before posting this question. I've been using my lunette for about 4 months. I've gotten a pretty good handle on it in that time, but I am still having some leaking issues. I will do the following and STILL it is prone to leaking.

1. Make sure it has fully opened.
2. Make sure it has properly sealed.
3. Make sure I cannot feel my any part of my cervix outside the cup.

It's comfortable. It's not full. But I still get leaking. Not your run of the mill slobber but actually leaking. I've checked the cup for holes or tears. Any idea what might be wrong, or what else I can do to ensure no leaking? I don't mind using cloth pads as an occasional back-up on my very heavy days, but I don't want it to leak when it is 1/4 of the way full!

I am a 24 year old who has never had children, using a small lunette. I do yoga and I am a not a virgin but I am a bit tight, so I figured it was the best bet. But now I don't know why to think. Does it sound like it is a fit issue? I would love my lunette to death if it didn't leak. It's comfy, not painful to insert or removal, and easy to clean. I'm hoping I might be missing something. Thanks so much to anyone with any suggestions!
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[info]prosingpixie, posting in [info]menstrual_cups
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 10:31 am Lynne Williams of the Green Party
Here is an article about the woman who is running for Governor of Maine:

http://thenewagenda.net/2009/07/11/lynne-williams-maine%e2%80%99s-candidate/
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[info]arkadelos, posting in [info]greenparty
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 09:43 am Green LadyCup
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I finally won one on EBAY;-)  I paid $19.99....Yay!!

I love my Diva Lg. but it tends to leak so I decided to try a ladycup. I 'kinda' did research but I didn't do any measuring...........I'm not SURE why my cup leaks SOME TIMES but anyhoo, I just wanted to try a new cup and this one is GREEN:-)   I hope to get before my period starts.  I'll be sure to tell ALL that happens:-)
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[info]regee0304, posting in [info]menstrual_cups
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 01:30 pm MPowercup update
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I have been in talks with MPower about possibly stocking them on my website.
As far as I am aware up until now they have been limited to South Africa only.
I have a few concerns about stocking them and I don't think I will stock them - but would value your input on one issue raised.
I asked if they sell them in different sizes and the reply was that there is only one size available. The reason given is this - 

We only have one size - the two size cups are a marketing gimmick. This size is good for most women. We are bringing out a teenage size , smaller and more rounded on the top so as to appear less scary for the younger market.

My views are firstly that this is an outrageous comment to make. Cups come in different sizes so that they can fit different women. This company doesn't appear to understand women's needs and the market that they are selling to. They also contradict themselves by then saying that they are bringing out another size. Also, are the younger market scared of cups!!??

 

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[info]femininewear, posting in [info]menstrual_cups
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 07:40 am (no subject)
I finally went to the Goodwill bookstore they have in Tallahassee, which is so charming and great, and I got old issues of Real Simple for sixty cents and a book about releasing your inner creativity and a book about growing vegetables in Florida and The Stranger so I can show people I'm deep and knowledgable about existentialism. I got some other books, too. I wanted to buy Candide since I loved it so much in high school, but I decided that I'm not going to gain as much reading old favorites as I would books I'm unfamiliar with. So I'm being a little adventurous. But I got all these books and a couple magazines and a book bag for $26. I felt like I was stealing. Sometimes you can't get two books for $26 at a book store. I can't believe I finally went to the Goodwill book store just before leaving town. Oh, well. It was like the Chamblin Bookmine but smaller, which wasn't a bad thing. And, since it's only a couple years old, it doesn't have the giant amounts of really really old books like Chamblin's does. There are some older ones, but it's not a third of the collection, as in Chamblin's. All in all, it was a great trip.

Then I came home and Ryan and I went to see Bruno on some passes we got after the projectionist screwed up on Night at the Museum 2 the other day. First of all, Night at the Museum 2 is awesome and I'd gladly see a third if they could retain the same actors and writers. Loved it even more than the first. Second, good job Tallahassee AMC for responding to what was, at max, a five minute delay of the movie with free tickets. I wish my job compensated me so nicely for my time. Anyway, about Bruno. Honestly, I don't know what to say. It was funny and it was vulgar and it was pretty charming, but I'm not sure what it was trying to tell me. I guess I felt the same way about Borat. I'm glad I saw it, and though I bet I disagree with Ryan on the matter, I have no interest in owning it.

So drunk on Austrian fashionistas and movie concessions, Ryan and I went to Border's. I know. Two bookstores in one day. Glorious. They're having some ridiculous sale, so I was able to grab a few interesting looking books for $4 (practically Goodwill Bookstore prices!) and the newest issue of Bitch. Ryan got a Pulp Fiction movie poster painting thing for the new house and The Time Traveler's Wife. On his own! Without me telling him to buy a book! I'm really excited, because he's not a big reader of fiction for pleasure, plus now that we own it I can totally read it too. So I'm pretty much stocked as far as books go, which is great, because I'm trying to cut down my time on the internet and watching TV.

We got a "loan packet" in the mail the other day and it's a bunch of papers Ryan has to sign to officially really really for realz and it is official apply for the loan that'll get us into our house. I'm so nervous. What if it doesn't work out? I know we'll be alright, I just got really excited about the house when we finally got to see it. This is me, crossing my fingers.

ALSO LATE HAPPY BIRTHDAY ASHLEIGH SPICERFACE! 
I HAVE A SMALL PRESENT FOR YOU AND I KNOW IT'S LATE 
BUT I THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT AND I HOPE YOU'LL LIKE IT 
AND I DON'T KNOW WHEN I'LL BE IN JACKSONVILLE AGAIN 
BUT I GOTS TO GET THIS TO YOU AND HAPPY BELATED 
BIRTHDAY AND I LOVE YOU YES
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[info]kawaiiwhit
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 07:07 pm (no subject)
Good. Fucking. Lord.

I heard that Transformers 2 was bad, but nothing in the world could have prepared me for this. Pretty much throughout the entire movie I could hear the 'hurr hurr hurr' of the immature fuckwads that made this movie, probably high-fiving at every ball, dick, and humping joke.

Here's a better idea for Transformers 3.

Destroy Michael Bay.

KILL ALL THE HUMANS. All of them. Even Sam.

Then have a movie about the FUCKING AUTOBOTS.
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[info]blunder_buss
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 01:17 pm How long does it take for a cup to pay for itself in the UK?
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I'm planning to move to the UK in a year or two, and I also want a Lunette or Fleurcup. Could any one of you tell me how long it would take to pay for itself - cost is 25 GBP, from what I've seen.
FWIW, I have a really light flow - I use about 5 XL ultra pads, and 5 liners per cycle.

Edit: Basically, my question comes down to - how much would 5 XL ultrathins and 5 liners cost in the UK?

(I love love love cups but it's really hard for me to justify buying another just 6 months after my first!)
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[info]radicalancient, posting in [info]menstrual_cups
Jul. 11th, 2009 @ 11:40 pm book review: "Foxhunt!" by Rich Hanes
Foxhunt! coverFoxhunt!, Rich Hanes' debut novel (Arkham Bridge Publishing, 2009) is, yes, a furry story. But don't let the anthropomorphic animals scare you away; you'd miss out on an enjoyable read.


Sebastian Valentino is a veteran of interstellar war, a mercenary who had it all. When he loses his assistant captain and best friend Adrian on a botched infilitration mission, he begins to unravel, mishandling Adrian's sacred funeral rituals and berating his new first officer in front of his crew. Matters grow worse when Sebastian's favored target, weary of his constant attacks, declares a bounty on his head. With Sebastian struggling to survive as an interstellar pariah, and an old enemy with a vendetta in hot pursuit, the Foxhunt! is on.



Set in a distant, furry future of spaceships, mecha combat, and rock bands, "Foxhunt!" follows Sebastian Valentino, a genetically-engineered humanoid fox, as his life as the captain of the galaxy's top mercenary unit falls apart.

Taking place in Hanes' "Wildstar Universe," Foxhunt! introduces a number of space-faring civilizations, all based on human-like animals: foxes, wolves, dogs, raccoons, and more. But this is no silly yiff story; the furry creatures here are deadly serious, caught up in a very human (or humanoid) story of loyalty, greed, and revenge.

Each civilization is fleshed out with a surprising amount of detail that walks the fine line between stereotype and archetype, rarely faltering. Foxes are tricky, canines are ever-loyal, coyotes are the ultimate survivors, and the rare human is able to view the "animals" with a detached objectivity, but none of the characters are slaves to their creature instincts.

A lot is packed into the 342 pages of Foxhunt!, including space battles, family drama, robot mecha fights, spirituality, and personal introspection, but Hanes mostly manages to avoid the long, clumsy information dumps found in bad sci-fi. A romantic subplot is somewhat skimpy and rushed, but it works to emphasize just how disconnected Captain Valentino is from his own feelings.

The supporting characters drift in and out -- this is Valentino's story, not theirs -- but they leave their marks on the story and on Sebastian's soul. They're complex enough to avoid being stock characters, and they manage to maintain their own voices -- including a young, precociously gifted child, and that's always a hard trick to pull off right.

Hanes does a good job of delving into the main character's psyche -- twice, literally setting the scene in Sebastian's head -- and also writes vivid fight scenes. Foxhunt! is a page-turner with a good sense of rhythm, and I'm recommending it to my friends who are science fiction fans as well as those who are furry fans. I'm definitely interested in reading more from Hanes, and watching him develop further as a novelist.

(Full disclosure: I gave Rich Hanes some early critiques of old drafts of this novel, but I hadn't read the whole thing until today.)
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[info]kynn
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 01:45 am FantasiaFest
(On a borrowed computer.)

I bought tickets to six different movies playing at Fantasia. Two horror films based on Clive Barker stories, two South Korean romantic comedies, one bizarre SF flick involving mpreg starring Lincoln Burrows, Jr. and Alex Rousseau/Linus, and an action double feature of revenge! (that calls for the exclamation mark) from Japan. I can't wait. I'd like to see more, but I'm trying to restrain myself.

There's HP&tHBP coming out this week; I'll definitely want to see The Hurt Locker, and I didn't manage to watch Public Enemies since the cinema had technical difficulties when I went to a matinee the other week. Fantasia's not the only cinematic highpoint of the month, but to compare other releases to peaks would relate Fantasia to a mountain range I might explore at my own risk.

So it's too bad that I couldn't bring myself to justify seeing the Thai pirate movie today, because I felt dizzy from the spending already.

I wouldn't mind owning the Fantasia '09 t-shirt, though.
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[info]ide_cyan
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 02:00 am personal kanban! it's like pizza. or jesus.
One of the agilist dudes is writing a series on kanban for individual/personal work. It's an impressively simple and practical explanation of kanban, and good reading for agile/lean people.

And? Even if you know nothing about those two concepts, it's an effective personal organization system. When I tried applying Scrum to getting things done at home, it sortof evolved into kanban: it became "I can do X things at a time, I'd like them to fall in Y categories - which were like personal value stream elements- and it makes the most sense to have them all be similar in size", and the iterations fell away (planning happened in a fluid way to queue up more Xs, I didn't really retrospect or review with myself on a set cadence, done was the equivalent of shipped, etc.).

So, worth reading if you're interested in ways of organizing your doings. Whatever you happen to do.
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[info]keryx
Jul. 11th, 2009 @ 10:59 pm yeah, more Star Trek.
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[info]gmonkey42
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 06:29 am poor scissors :(
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Current Music: T-ara - Good Person


I'm playing this right now! It's good! For a dating sim, I mean, not actually good.

decade 24 (spoilers) )

I have a Takeru/Ryunosuke/Chiaki fic I'm trying to write. I'll get back to it.
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[info]niav
Jul. 11th, 2009 @ 09:58 pm One last chance.
I was having a lot of trouble with my size 1 Diva. It wouldn't go in, I was certain it wouldn't fit, and I was just sick of trying. Tampons give me panic attacks (TSS symptoms immediately upon insertion), and pads are itchy and smelly, but it looked like I was going to have to go back to disposables anyway. I was ready to give up, but then with the help of a number of people from this community, I caved and ordered a small LadyCup from eBay. It should arrive in a couple of weeks (it's coming from the Czech Republic and I'm in central Canada), but I'm excited to try something smaller that may actually work for me.

Before it arrives, does anyone have any advice for a first time user...a 19 year old virgin?
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[info]mezzoloud, posting in [info]menstrual_cups
Jul. 12th, 2009 @ 11:48 am oh what a beautiful morning


oh what a beautiful day
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[info]zhenzhi
Jul. 11th, 2009 @ 06:58 pm live by the tone argument, die by the tone argument
The ongoing shenanigans at Pam's House Blend about Fritz and "Bruno" show just how bad this whole "civility" thing is when it's used to try to shut up people talking about, for example, homophobia.

The irony that Fritz -- who compared trans people to Nazis for using the "cis" terminology -- is on the receiving end now is not lost on me.

Seriously, pass the popcorn. PHB is like this madhouse trainwreck of multiple privileges and intersectionality desperately trying to pretend the only problem is a lack of civility from trans people.

Way to go, Pam! Heck of a job, Autumn and Lurleen!

Update: I forgot to mention it before, but the people bringing out their inner anti-Semites on that thread are really quite disturbing.

Whether or not you like Sasha Baron Cohen, or think that his portrayals of various groups are wrong, this kind of stuff isn't the way to attack Cohen (who is Jewish):

I will change my mind if Cohen creates a new character with exaggerated mannerisms, let's call him "Hymie the Hasidic Jew", and takes HIM on tour to Brooklyn and North London.

WTF?

This is met with approval by Louise, apparently another one of Pam's baristas, who writes of Cohen, "He's too much of a self-serving coward to even consider it, imo."

Lovely.

(Louise is the PHB poster who wrote a so-caled guide to civility, which, I suppose, includes anti-Semitism. And it's not like Louise is some kind of paragon of civility herself.)
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[info]kynn
Jul. 11th, 2009 @ 09:32 pm Waiting
Current Mood: scared
 First off I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who's shared their stories so far - it's helped a lot reading about other people's experiences (even though I know they range a lot with medical abortion).  I found out I was pregnant last week, though I suspected it for a week before that (I am about 7 weeks right now) because of the slight nausea and other weird feeling I was getting.  I took an at home test and it was positive, so the next day I called the Washington Surgi-Clinic in DC.  My experience with them has been okay, not awful, not great.  The nurses have been very nice.  I got an appointment the same day.  At the appointment I paid for the medical abortion procedure ($475 - yikes) and got blood taken.

Yesterday I had my follow up appointment where I got an ultrasound.  The nurse who took my ultrasound actually said "I don't think this is going to work ..." which scared me.  But then she said it was okay.  I got called back in to see the Doctor who gave me a short physical examination and the four misoprostol pills that I have to insert vaginally in five days (Wednesday).  After that the nurse came in and gave me my methotrexate shot, which was not painful.  Since the shot I felt a little bit nauseous, but I felt that way for the past two weeks as a result of the pregnancy.  It's a little stronger, but I don't know if it's because of the methotrexate.  I was kind of out of it on my way back to work from the doctor and left the misoprostol and prescription for Tylenol 3 in the cab - called the clinic in a panic and have to go back Monday to pick up a new set of tablets and prescription.  My boyfriend made fun of me for that - jerk.  The hardest part right now is waiting for Wednesday.  I keep on reading stories online about other people's experiences and want to get it over with.

It also sucks being alone and going through the process.  My boyfriend was just moved to TN because he is in the military and my sister just moved to KY for a job so I'm feeling really alone.  I told one friend who lives in DC and she's been super supportive, but I wish I had someone to stay with me when I took the pills Wednesday.  My boyfriend has been very supportive during the entire process, but he will be on a training exercise Wednesday and I don't know if he'll be able to talk much on his cell.  I just feel really alone and keep crying, but I think it's because of the hormones and hope this will subside.  I'm scared it's going to be super painful because I'm pretty far along.

Anyways, I just keep hoping that the procedure goes smoothly Wednesday night and I can make it to work Thursday, I'll call in sick if I need to, but my boss is really crazy about not coming in.  Thanks to everyone for writing about your experiences, it really is helpful and makes me feel less nervous. 

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[info]sunkizt114, posting in [info]abortioninfo